domestic reflections: My Boy Is Four.

My Boy Is Four.

August 16, 2009

I truly cannot believe it, but my boy is four.

After 24 hours of labor, three hours of pushing (yes, three) and two vacuum extraction attempts, you arrived four years ago today at about 9:30 at night. We were so happy, relieved and finally, in a way, complete.

And here you are today. This picture will always remind me of who you are: a careful, thoughtful person, who always, always looks out for his little sister.

6 comments:

Alice Q. FoodieAugust 17, 2009 at 8:41 AM
They are so cute together! Happy Birthday C-Man!!
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HelenaAugust 17, 2009 at 9:19 AM
So sweet... Happy birthday, little man!
Hi Jora! xoxo, Helena
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KristinAugust 17, 2009 at 9:22 AM
I'm tearing up, that's so lovely. What a sweet, sweet boy. Happy birthday, little guy!
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AnonymousAugust 17, 2009 at 10:00 AM
Happy B-Day, C-Man! Congratulations to all of you.

Is that you being blonde, Jora?

jbhat
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The Lewis FarmAugust 18, 2009 at 6:35 PM
That wrecks me--so touching.
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180360August 21, 2009 at 4:34 PM
Happy belated birthday, C-Man!
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